Todd RansfordJun 62 min"You're not wrong, Walter; you're just an asshole!"For anyone who has not seen “The Big Lebowski,” the scene takes place in a diner with Walter (John Goodman) arguing with The Dude (Jeff...
Todd RansfordApr 8, 20215 minIt depends on how you look at itThis past year I decided to revisit some of the books that made a big impact on me as a young man and see what they look like now, as a...
Todd RansfordDec 7, 20204 minAmbivalenceTwenty years ago, I stumbled upon something important. I was working as an employee at a mid-size business at the time and got into a...
Todd RansfordJan 28, 20204 minConnectionIn couples, it’s not unusual to find mismatches in how people respond to problems. Typically, men want to jump right into problem-solving...
Todd RansfordDec 16, 20193 minHow do you catch a duck?The 15-year-old girl glowers at her mother across the room. “You are so stupid. The more you try to control me the more I’m just going to...